I just couldn’t do it. There was no one in my “circle” that I could ask, or even have a friend to ask for me. Really, there hasn’t been anyone for a long while now, that I would even consider asking. But, I wanted a Plus One, too.
My classmates were all in the group chat RSVPing to the invite. The single people were “declaring” that they were bringing a Plus One. Even the married classmates started adding Plus One to their response. I responded with, “I’m attending”.
The next day at church, I saw one of the Misters that’s been mentioned in some of these posts, and the thought came to me to invite him to be my Plus One. Then, all of a sudden it hit me… I don’t want to bring just anybody around my classmates.
We’ve grown into being more than just friends, we’ve become family. And you know what families do when the “baby” brings someone new into the fold; they accept them with open arms. I didn’t want to pretend that this person meant something to me, when he doesn’t. I really want to bring as my Plus One, the person that makes my heart sing.
Since the event is about a month away, I decided to not stay in my feelings about having to attend the event alone. I always find someone to talk to when we get together. And besides, they’re my classmates, and they know I’m Single.
This Journey To Us has taken a lot longer than I’d have liked. But now, I’m at a place in my life where WE are worth the wait. No need to start settling for less now.
My Journey, My Story 