It all makes sense now. I’m the happiest I’ve ever been in my Single state. I’ve overcome so many barriers to get to this point: fear, doubt, confusion and even loneliness. But today, I know that no matter what life holds for me relationally, I will Enjoy This Journey! It has taught me so much about me. It has allowed me to evolve and become the woman I can admire because I’m true to my words, my faith and my love for others.
I’m not gonna keep you in suspense about the above photo. Yes, I signed back in for another round of online dating – and my response is still the same: it’s not for me! But what was for me is the fact that I set boundaries and I did not give in to the repeated request to change them. I didn’t allow the feelings of being rushed to overwhelm me. Or the thoughts that I would lose out if I didn’t comply to overshadow what I knew I not only needed but desired in a relationship.
The two biggest flaws (to me) with online dating is one: the men who sign up with the intention of using as many woman as possible for their own satisfaction. And two: the scammers. Both are a WASTE OF TIME! So, ladies and gentlemen, I would have you know that I held my own this time around. I made it clear what I needed, wanted and desired. And I refused to accept anything that was offered to me that didn’t look like what I requested.
My Journey, My Story 