I asked God today “what does my dating relationship look like?” I know what I want and don’t want in a relationship but I wanted to know how He saw it. Will the man in my life “use his words” the way I need to hear them? I use my words ALL the time to invoke an image in the person that reads or hears them. Will the man in my life know the type of words to use when conversing with me that will enhance our relationship? Or will he be like most of the men I’ve encountered who withhold their words and do not communicate on the level that will meet my desires?
I’m inspired because I know that God gives the desires of your heart as you delight in him. This desire for my man to speak to me in a fashion, tone or certain style lines up with the desire I have for a man who is secure within himself who recognizes that flattering words are not what I need. But truthful words spoken in love will bring out the best – and sexy, in me. That being said, I knew that God knew exactly what I meant when I asked Him the question. I wanted to know about the private aspect of our relationship. I didn’t want to just “go along” with whatever everyone else accepted in todays relationships, I wanted for us to cultivate a connection that was both spiritual as well as natural.
I’ve always been in love with being in love. However, actually being in a relationship where I could consistently be the Me that I’m purposed to be has not always been my reality. So in essence, I was asking God if now was the time I would truly get to share all of me with the man “of my dreams”. The man who could not only hear what I say and respond but the man who would have a few words of his own that he wouldn’t mind sharing with me personally. Hopefully, one day I’ll get to share with you some of the words he used along this Journey to Us.
My Journey, My Story 